If we were on a coffee date, I'd probably be early because I'm getting my first pedicure in I'm-not-even-sure-how-long, tomorrow and will try and squeeze in some reading time.
If we were on a coffee date, I would have texted you what your coffee order is so it'd be ready for you when you got here. And then I'd add it to the "Organization" line of your contact in my phone. Just in the case of an emergency :)
If we were on a coffee date, I'd ask you how your Easter was! And if you celebrate Jesus or something else for the day.
If we were on a coffee date, I'd probably tell you I've recently started a recovery group at my church and I'm not even sure yet why. I've always been pretty open about brokenness in my life. Hence, this very public place. And I decided a decade or so ago that I wasn't going to be the girl that only talks or writes about things after I found victory. I was going to write and talk about the pain of the process. Because that's we tend to fear the most.
If we were on a coffee date, I'd probably go right for the deep stuff (because small talk gives me anxiety) and ask if you've ever done anything like recovery.
If we were on a coffee date, I'd tell you about my friend (well, we've met twice but I'm going to call her my friend) Hosanna Poetry. She does spoken word, and she started out at Celebrate Recovery. She's expanded her repertoire now, but I've yet to hear a word that hasn't made me cry. Bernal Heights slays me. And makes me want to redeem every place that's broken me.
If we were on a coffee date, I'd ask if you want another cup, because I have a feeling we'll be here a while ;)